Stepping Across the Line

No matter what we do, there’s always that invisible line that limits our choices. That’s normal. That’s human. And I’d say that it’s rational to have limits because otherwise, can you imagine the chaos that would ensue? Lately, though, I’m being confronted with contradicting thoughts about what to aim for in life. Of course, people have different aspirations and priorities. These personal inclinations are what set the tone for the life plan that we set for ourselves. 

Now, here is how I look at it: You have potential. To be great, to be good, to be satisfied, or simply to be happy with whatever comes along. It goes without saying that you also have potential to suck. But that’s not exactly a fork in the road that we’ll look at. I can’t tell you why some people are more successful than others, and I certainly cannot say why others are (or seem to be) happier despite not really aiming for anything. But I can tell you that looking into your strengths making use of them will give you dividends. Don’t sue me if doing so won’t give you money, though I honestly believe that realizing some of your dreams will give you a proportional amount of happiness. 

I guess what I’m saying is that if you really want something, at least try to get it. But believe that you will, while facing the fear of disappointment. Personally, I tend to expect the worse, so I can shrug off disappointments probably a little better than some. But that’s also a product of a lifetime of processing emotions and thoughts a little too intensely, so that’s probably not the norm. 

Believe it or not, I’m not trying to be inspirational. I’m just trying to get across the point that despite our plain realities, there’s always that  tiniest bit of anomaly that can make things different for the better. So don’t be afraid to take risks, within reason. Stick to your guns, despite doubts from others. Better yet, work in the background so you won’t have to worry about being embarrassed if things don’t pan out. Of course, expect that it would also take much work, and not to mention eye cream to mask your lack of sleep, to go beyond your limits. If it’s really worth it, I’d say go for broke at least once in your life. At least you’ll have the satisfaction of knowing that you tried.